Coaches Corner

Volume 51 February 2010
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach,

Not too much happening with the alumni.
Had a nice visit from Danny Teitlebaum, Lafayette (1953) who looks like he can still take the field.
Just finished reading a great book "Passing Game". Story of Benny Friedman reknowned as the
greatest fooball player ever. All about how he helped found the NFL and his other great exploits.
Book is available at www.half.com for under $5.00
Lafayette's own Mike Uhlberg (1951) played at Brandeis for Coach Friedman.
Mike was inducted into the Brandeis Football Hall of Fame. Spends his time in California writing
best selling children's books.

LISTEN UP!
Friday February 19, 2010, Coach will be celebrating his 95th birthday.
Pay back is NOT always a bitch! It is a pleasure when you can speak with him.
Once again I have gotten him to promise to respond to everyone who calls or sends a card, when they reach 95.

Coach Harry Ostro
232 Milligan Road
West Babylon, NY 11704

1-631-707-3657
If he does not answer (he is probably doing push-ups) let the phone ring until the tape comes on
and leave a message.

Larry Merchant, Herb Tanzer, Don Kufert, Richie Kaufman, John Sprizzo, Dr. Adrizzo, Woody Friend, Ciro Masso, Vince Gargano, ad infinitum............................

“And when one final scorer comes to write against your name, he asks not whether you won or lost.
but how you played the game”

Grantland Rice

Volume 48 May 2009
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach

Sadly we mark the passing of Billy Romano.
An ex-Lafayette HS footballer who remained friends with many of his teammates throughout the years.
Many will remember the roof top gatherings at Bill's rooftop Trattoria. He was a gracious and generous host to all who attended.
The Coach maintained his friendship with him for more than 50 years and commented " He met all the high standards that were presented to him while on the team. May he rest in peace"

It is hard to believe but time does travel with lightning rapidity. Coach's beloved wife Audrey was interred at Arlington National Cemetary on April 26, 2005. As he has done each year, the Coach visits with Audrey at the gravesite.

I recently prevailed upon the Coach to help me in compiling material for a book about the "Golden Years" in football at John Adams HS and Lafayette HS.
It has been 9 years since the website was first posted to the net. The accolades it receives can be attributed to the faculty, friends, former students and players who lived in that amazing time in Brooklyn's history.
While there is still time, please contribute any stories, newsprint, photos to be used in this very important project.
Whether it be the joy of victory or the agony of defeat, it all plays a part in documenting this era for future generations. There is a saying, "you can't go back", but how many of you would give anything to live in that wonderful time once more.
"Hey mom, the Good Humor man is coming, can I have a dime, please".

If a book does get published, it will need a title. All suggestions are welcomed.

Mail to:
Vico Confino
Maxsell Corp.
6601 Lyons Road D-1
Coconut Creek, Fl 33073

Toll free # 1-877-332-2343
Fax: 954-571-2101
Talk with the Coach: 631-587-4651

Just received a note from Mr. "Indestructible" Art Metrano, giving us his new website: artmetrano.net
Go back in time with Art and enjoy the acting and comedy he has excelled at for more than fifty years. Art was also a stand out football player at Lafayette HS and college where he was voted Junior Collegiate All American. Fortunately he chose Hollywood and we are all the better for it.

Feeling blue, need a dose of inspiration.........
www.coachharryostro.com

Nil Desperendum ( the best is yet to be)
Ol' Coach

Volume 47 February 2009
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach

The Coach has asked that I write this newsletter to let you know that he is feeling great and continuing to lead an active lifestyle.
He recently returned from a trip to his home in Marietta, Ga
I speak with the Coach often, we reminisce about the “Golden Years” at Lafayette HS and John Adams HS.
So many players who he coached and instilled the principles of desire, determination and discipline who have gone on to be highly successful in their occupations.

On February 19th he will be celebrating his 94th birthday.
Take a minute out of your busy schedule and give him a call.
Tel: 631-587-4651
Pass on your lottery purchase this week and send him a greeting card.
( If President Obama can take the time to send him a card, so can you)
Coach Harry Ostro
Harbour Club
232 Milligan Road
West Babylon, NY 11704

Mr. “Indestructable” Art Metrano is home recuperating from a triple bypass, kidney failure and having steel rods inserted into his spine. You can reach him at: 305-918-0094
A winner never quits and a quitter never wins. Art is rehearsing to do his stage show at the Colony Theatre in Miami Beach in March.

Mike Myron Uhlberg’s latest book “Hands of My Father” has just been released. Critics gave it thumbs up in reviewing the pre-publication release.
Remember Mike is the linebacker at Brandeis who had 5 broken noses before he realized that a face guard might be a good idea. Kidding aside, he was voted into the Brandeis Football Hall of Fame. Deservedly so!

Mel Freibaum has overcome his medical problems and is back on the field instructing tomorrow’s All Star place kickers.

Got a minute: Check out youtube.com/vicoconfino
Does the Coach’s system work? I checked it out by entering the Florida Senior Olympics held in Ft. Lauderdale, Fl Feb. 7th
Surprise! Surprise! I won the Bronze Medal in the 50 meter swim event. That’s right, 76 and still competing.

This newsletter is open to all friends, players and alumni of Lafayette HS and John Adams HS
All memorabilia, photos, comments are always welcome.

“And when one final scorer comes to write against your name,
He asks not whether you won or lost, but how you played the game” Grantland Rice
Stay well, stay in the game.
Vico for Coach Ostro

Volume 46 December 2008
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach

Amazing how time flies. It is more than a year since we had the dedication of the Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Field (Oct. 13, 2007)
A day that will go down in history as he was presented with a Proclamation by the Brooklyn Borough president marking for now and all time this date as “Coach Harry Ostro Day”.
Another great day is coming up on February 19, 2009.
The Coach will be celebrating his 94th birthday.
My toast to him on that day will be, Coach “May you live to be 150 and the last voice you hear is mine”.
What a great ride we have all had because we have been part of his life.
Coach was never one to brag of his exploits but it has never stopped me from setting them in stone via this newsletter for now and forever.
Many of you know that he parachuted into Holland during WW II as Lieutenant Harry Ostro.
He fought valiantly to keep our country free and was seriously wounded during this face to face combat with the German enemy.
Awarded the Purple Heart and Bronze Star for his leadership and bravery.

Coach wishes each and every one of you a Happy Holiday and Healthy New Year.

I say to you hardened veterans of the gridiron, take a moment and call him. 631-587-4651
You may have forgotten the battle cry “Remember Pearl Harbor” but you will never forget “Coach Harry Ostro “.

As always this newsletter is open to all who cherish the memories of those golden years and would like to contribute comments or memorabilia.

Stay well, stay in the game,

Vico Confino (1951)

Volume 42 October 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Lafayette HS Athletic Complex Dedication and reunion. 10.12.07

Saturday Oct. 13, 11 a.m. in school auditorium

FINAL UPDATE

I am looking forward to meeting all of you on Saturday.

There will be no food, so come prepared if you need a snack.

Please wear a name tag and indicate year of graduation.

Rich and famous or poor and unknown we are all equal at this gathering, as on the day we first entered Lafayette HS.

I have been receiving calls from all over the USA and this could be the biggest event ever at Lafayette HS

Media will be covering the dedication and we will be video taping the entire dedication ceremonies to edit and make a CD.

To continue the excellent work the Alumni Association of Lafayette has been doing, please give them your support by contributing any amount you are able to. Bring a check with you made out to: Alumni Assoc. of Lafayette.

The Lafayette HS football team is in dire need of funds to purchase much needed equipment. Dr. Mark Sherman is the team physician and will accept your contribution in any amount at the dedication.

If it is easier for you to use your credit card please call me toll free: 1-877-332-2343. I will take the charge on my company credit card system and write a check to whoever you choose.

GOOD NEWS: We are going to have the best time of our lives on Saturday.

Bad news: We will all feel sorry for those who don’t attend.

May you all live to be 150 years old and the last voice you hear is mine.

Vico Confino 1951

Volume 41 September 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

LAFAYETTE H.S.
DEDICATION CEREMONY
OCTOBER 13, 2007
10 AM AT LAFAYETTE HS
AUDITORIUM

UPDATE:
As for who is coming, I am working on a list.
Harold "Heshye" Seidenberg
Phil Unger
Danny Luciano
John Sprizzo
Danny Teitlebaum
Nick DiCiccio
Renee Mark
Art Metrano
Jerry Della Femina
Don Kufert
Doc Sherman family
Jerry Weitzen
Angelo Palumbo
Billy Romano
Dominick Geravasi
Sam De Luca
Rich Kaufman
Larry Merchant
Vince Gargano
Rudy Pastercyzk
Blacky Fasano
Lenny Lefkowitz
Woody Friend
Herb Tanzer
Rudy Scala
Mel Freibaum
Paul Nagelberg
Don Dempske
Howie Rosenthal
Ciro Masso

When I proposed this event I thought 200 would show up. Now it looks like there may be 2,000
I am working on getting the auditorium opened for the ceremony.

"When the going gets tough, the tough get going"

If you are not on this list, you should be on the next if you reply.
Concensus for food after game: Alumni would prefer to go somewhere with their friends to eat.
Still open: A buffet at Spumoni Gardens . If you agree, let me know and I will make arrangements. Otherwise it’s every man and woman for themselves.
People who missed the “Chelsea Affair” are still sorry they did not attend. It was a great day.
Send in e-mail addresses of anyone you would like to be notified.
So many alumni to notify and so little time. HELP!!!!!!

Vico 33vico@gmail.com
1-877-332-2343

Volume 39 July 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Coach’s Newsletter

Ed. Note:

I have prevailed upon the Coach to recall some of the hi-lights of his life and career in his newsletters,

I was recently invited to attend a dinner organized for the Boys High Alumni Assoc. by Moe Steinberg their President (and former player). Unfortunately I could not attend and had to cancel.

Ed Note: Coach graduated from Boys High HS and after his WWII service returned to the school as an assistant to Head Coach Wally Muller.

In my phone conversation with Moe, the one thing he remembered about me was how I ran down the sideline when Alex Wizbicki ran for a touchdown with me yelling go! Go! Go! Alex.

Alex went on to play for Holy Cross College and he finished his football career playing in the NFL with the Buffalo Bills.

This reminded me of the time when I was coaching at John Adams. In a scrimmage against another school, Nick Mattera intercepted a pass and ran it back for a touchdown. I ran along the sidelines with Nick and met him at the goal line. Nick expected me to say “good show etc”. Instead I chewed him out for not yelling GERONIMO. That was a signal to the team that we were going from defense to offense.

On Oct. 12, 1944 I was with 501st paratrooper infantry regiment of the 101st Airborne in Veghel, Holland . The Hollywood movie of this mission was called “A Bridge Too Far”

On that date I lead my platoon inside enemy lines. We accomplished what we had to do. However before we reached our lines I was clobbered. I didn’t know what hit me and I still don’t know how I reached our battalion aide station.

When I became aware of my surroundings, I wanted to send a note to my family to let them know that I was all right and not to worry.

As I attempted to write the letter, I had trouble holding the pen in my hand and the little I did write, the words came out backwards. I then asked the corpsman for help. When he saw what was happening he went and told the M.D. in charge.

This resulted in my being placed in an ambulance and brought to a field hospital. They x-rayed me and when they saw the pictures they put me on a stretcher and ambulanced me to the 24th Evacuation hospital.

Lying on a stretcher on the ground, a surgeon came over to me and told me they were going to take me inside and operate on me.

Luckily for me the 24th Evacuation Hospital had surgeons from the Massachusetts General Hospital .

When I started coming out of the anesthesia I heard German being spoken and thought I had been captured. Finally my head cleared and I was told they were treating German prisoners of war in the same field hospital. Shortly thereafter, a surgeon came to see me and brought the pieces of shrapnel they had removed from my head.

I don’t know how long I was at the 24th. One day I was strechered out to a plane and sent to England . Once again I was put on a stretcher and brought to Hospital Ship U.S.S. Hudleson.

Since the war was still on, the ship had to do some evasive maneuvers. It took us about 10-15 days to get to the USA . I think they docked at a port in New Orleans .

I was brought to a train that went to McCloskey General Hospital in Temple , Texas .

They also had some great neuro surgeons. Once they went to work on me they had me sitting up and finally ambulatory. Part of the recovery process required me to report to physiotherapy. I really worked hard there. It helped me get back to where I once was.

The war in Europe was over and the doctors sent me in June ’45 to be Army retired on August 22, 1945.

I was glad to get back home. After about a week I went over to Boys High to see Coach Wally Muller. Wally asked me what I was doing for the summer. I had no plans since I was still in the Army until Aug. 22nd.

He told me there was a job open at the waterfront at Camp Berkshire , Winsted , Conn. He said come along with me and I did.

One day at camp I was told to go down to the girls campgrounds to do some “heavy lifting”.

Audrey De Mott of Englewood, N.J. was in command. Audrey taught physical education in the Tenafly, N.J. school system.

Audrey knew how to run a waterfront and was a tough task master and reminded me of my basic training in Camp Wheeler, GA.

I couldn’t wait to get back to the boys camp.

There was a problem at the girl’s camp. Someone was messing around with their equipment in the evening. I was asked to take an early supper and ride fence there.

A day or two later I noticed this blond hard charger coming down to where I was sitting. She had a paper bag in her right hand. Boy, I told myself, get ready, she was going to take you to the woodshed.

Lo and behold she congratulated me for doing a good job and in the paper bag was a hamburger for me. This started a relationship that ended in a marriage that lasted for 57 years.

Now you know why Wally Muller was a very important person in my life.

If I didn’t go to Camp Berkshire in Winsted, Conn. I would never of known this DAR (Daughter of the American Revolution) Audrey De Mott.

Nil Desperendum
The best is yet to be,
The Ole Coach,

Ed Note;
Just one question:
Where would all of us guys who were lucky enough to be mentored by Coach Ostro be, if our paths had not crossed?
I know for sure that you wouldn’t be reading this newsletter now if I had not been so fortunate.
Vico

P.S.
The game between Lafayette HS and John Adams HS is scheduled for Saturday October 13, 2007 at noon at Lafayette HS field.

Please advise by return e-mail if you are planning on attending.

33vico@gmail.com

Any suggestions, comments, ideas for dedicating the field to the Coach will be welcomed and appreciated.

33vico@gmail.com

Volume 38 June 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach,

GREAT NEWS!
A game between Lafayette HS and John Adams HS has been scheduled for Saturday noon October 13, 2007 at the Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Complex ( Lafayette HS).
This is the goal I have been trying to reach for a long, long time.
The field has never been dedicated to the Coach and this would be the ideal time to do it.
I am reaching out to all of you alumni to make suggestions for a day that will go down in high school football history.
I have been in touch with Jerry Della Femina who will be contacting the office of Mayor Bloomberg to find out if we can have that day declared officially as “Coach Harry Ostro Day”.
If any of the alumni has contacts with your local council officials please advise how we can get in touch with them once our plans have been formulated.
Coach Jerry Weitzen ( Coach at John Adams) who played for the Coach will be coordinating the John Adams HS alumni and faculty.
Let’s try to line up enough students and faculty to fill the Coach’s Complex to overflowing.
Those of you who have contacts in the media, please spread the word or forward me the contact phone numbers.
If you know of any celebrity alumni please contact them or forward their number to me.
“Every great journey begins with one step”. Just do it!
We have the time, we have the place, do we still have the great spirit that was instilled in all us by the Coach to get the job done.
Please take a minute and respond to me with your thoughts, comments, suggestions about this great day.
e-mail: 33vico@gmail.com or call me toll free: 1-877-332-2343

Since I am located in Florida , I will need help in making local arrangements for alumni attending from out of town ( hotel, motel, restaurants, transportation etc. etc.) Please contact me if you can help.
The Coach is well and has promised me he will attend.

Stay well, stay in the game,

Viiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiico 1-877-332-2343

Volume 37 May 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico note: I have always been curious to know how many former players of Coach Ostro, went on to spend some or all of their lives coaching football. After many years of pleading and I must admit much begging, the Coach has finally given me some answers.

The following will clear up a lot of the stories and myths that we have all heard repeated over the years. As the saying goes, “ I got it right from the “Coach’s mouth”.

To the Lafayette & John Adams Boys of Autumn

Coach Ostro speaks:
I arrived at Lafayette High in 1947. I was officially retired from the Army on August 22, 1945.

Prior to Lafayette , I helped Bob Fulton the coach of Flushing High at that time and I followed that as assistant to Walter Muller at Boys High.

I was excited about the opportunity to become Head Coach of Lafayette High. There prior record in the won and lost column was dismal. It was a challenge to me.

As I evaluated the players I was surprised at their athletic ability and their desire to be winners. We went on to be undefeated in my first year as head coach.

Vince Gargano was our Captain. Vince went on to be a star at the University of South Carolina . When he graduated from there he helped me coach the nationally recognized ’52 team. Vince went on to be the head coach at Lincoln High. When he retired he was an assistant coach for George Brancato (who played for me at Lafayette ) in Canada . George was a great athlete at Lafayette . >From there he went on to play for L.S.U.

After his professional career he became coach of the Ottawa Rough Riders in Canada where he won the Grey Cup a number of times. (Ed. Note) Coach Brancato holds the record for taking his team to the Canadian playoffs 10 years in a row. I remember George running wild at an Ebbets Field H.S. night football game.

I chose Frank Rabinowitz to be my assistant of the 1947 team. Frank was on the Boys High Football team when I assisted Wally Muller. Frank was a real war hero. He was with the 82nd Airborne during WWII.

When the head basketball coaching position came open Frank was appointed to it. A team that had Sandy Koufax on it. As you probably know Sandy is rated as one of the best baseball pitchers of all time.

Another member of the ’47 team was Len Wechter. He became the head coach of James Monroe H.S. in the Bronx .

When Frank went on to coach the basketball team, Ang Plaia became my assistant. I can’t say enough about his athletic ability, coaching ability and most of all, the love of the team for him. Ang left Lafayette to become Athletic Director at Oceanside High School in Nassau County . Ang has been placed in their Hall of Fame.

Bon Voyage old pal, we still miss you and always will.

The ’52 team: I had an unbelievable staff of former players who gave of their time to work with me. Besides Vince Gargano, Larry Merchant was on our ’47 team and a graduate of the University of Oklahoma he helped me with introducing of the split-T as our form of offense. Larry went on to be a columnist for the New York Post. He is now a commentator for HBO on their boxing T.V. programs. Was inducted into the Sportscasters Hall of Fame 2003.

Sam De Luca who was a player on the ’52 team, went on to be an All Star at the University of South Carolina . Sam finished his professional football career as the Captain of the New York Jets.

Ray Caffiero played for me at Lafayette and went on to become Head Coach at Madison HS in Brooklyn .

Another of my players who is still in the game and just recently advised that he will continue his specialty of coaching kickers at a new school in Florida is Mel Freibaum.

When I left Lafayette H.S. to accept my appointment as the Assistant Principal in charge of the Health Ed Dep’t and Head Football Coach at John Adams H.S. I had Sam De Luca as a member of my department and on the coaching staff.

It was long after that Sam introduced me to Ralph Baker, the All-Pro linebacker from the New York Jets. Ralph also became a member of the faculty at John Adams. I don’t know of any high school team that was coached by two active professional football players at that time.

When I left Lafayette to go to John Adams, I wanted the players I was leaving in the hands of a competent leader whom they could respect and follow. I did just that. I chose Sam Rutigliano. Sam proved my judgement was correct. Sam had a successful career at Lafayette . He was head football coach at Greenwich H.S. in Connecticut, assistant coach at University of Connecticut, assistant coach at the New York Jets and the head coach of the Cleveland Browns. Sam was also the head coach of Liberty College in Virginia . He has recently been coaching overseas pro football in Scotland and Spain .

On the squad that I left to Sam who became a coach was Phil Ottochian at Lyman Hall H.S. in Connecticut and Larry Pasquale assistant coach of the New York Jets. Phil has retired and Larry is a commentator on the TV Yes network.

My career at John Adams lasted another 20 years.

My 1st quarterback was Walt Sofsian who upon graduation from Adams went on to play for Syracuse University . Walt became head coach at Elmont High in Nassau County .

My two assistants at John Adams were Martin Doherty and Angelo Palumbo. Angelo played for me at Lafayette High. When I retired from John Adams, Angelo Palumbo replaced me as head coach.

Ang did a great job and won the P.S.A.L. championship.

The present football coach at John Adams is Jerry Weitzen who also played for me at Lafayette .

When I retired from John Adams I spent my football weekends at West Point watching the Army team play.

I enjoyed the VIP treatment and especially the West Point Jump Team that parachuted on to the field to give the game ball to the referee.

The tickets were given to me by Scott Lustig who played for me at John Adams. Scott played his college football at Kutztown University . The head coach of that team was my friend George Baldwin.

We go back to the days when George was the coach at Dwight Morrow in Englewood , NJ and I was living there. It was also the time when Vince Lombardi was the coach of St. Cecilia in Englewood .

I bused a Lafayette team to scrimmage George Baldwin’s squad at Englewood . It was quite an experience for them to practice on grass. I wanted them to know how the other half lived.

It beat working out in the “dust bowl” that they were used to. Maybe because they were able to survive the scrimmages there, made us winners. I guess the practicing in the “dust bowl” made us tough enough to accept the knocks of the game.

I could go on and on. I had a great run. All the players from the All-Stars to the bench warmers made it all possible. THANK YOU!

Stay positive avoid negative people, when life hands you a lemon, make it into lemonade. Fly with the eagles and make your scars into stars.

Coach

Ed note;

I have made notes each time I have spoken with the Coach over the past 22 years. What you have just read is only the “tip of the iceberg” of the happenings that this great man has experienced in his lifetime.

As the words to that song go, “those were the days my friends, I thought they’d never end”…….

and they never will, as long as we have the treasured memories of this great Coach and those whom he mentored.

Vico

Another great quote from the world of football:

Terry Bradshaw: I may be dumb, but I’m not stupid”.

As always: Your thoughts your comments as well as photos and memories are always welcome. If by chance someone you know who played for the Coach, went on to coach and was not included in the coach’s letter, please let me know.

e-mail to: 33vico@gmail.com

Stay well, stay in the game.

Volume 36 March 2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

February 19, 2007

Coach’s Newsletter

To those who called or sent me birthday cards wishing me a healthy and happy 92nd birthday, please accept this note as my special thanks and appreciation.

I’m still vertical and mobile but more fragile than agile.

I still do my push ups everyday and thank GOD for still keeping me around so that in minds eye I can relive my days at Lafayette and John Adams High.

I have just finished “The Junction Boys” by Jim Dent. It is about 10 days in Hell with Bear Bryant when he became Coach at Texas A&M.

In the book it is noted that Bear Bryant carried this poem with him. I pass it on to you!
This is the beginning of a new day,
God has given me this day to use it as I will,
I can waste it or use it for good.
What I do today is very important because
I am trading a day of my life for it
When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever,
leaving something in its place that I have traded for it.
I want it to be a gain not a loss, good not evil,
success not failure in order that I shall not forget the price I paid for it!!

All the very best to you all & Nil Desperendum (the best is yet to be)

The Ole Coach,

Coach would like to hear from some of his players at John Adams HS. ostromail@coachharryostro.com

FOOTBALL QUOTES:
Terrel Owens, of the San Francisco 49ers was asked for one word to describe himself.
He said, “confident”. When asked for another word he said,
“very”.

Dick Butkus:

I wouldn’t ever set out to hurt anyone deliberately unless it was, you know, important “ like a league game or something”.

Please contact Lenny Lefkowitz if you know how he can get in touch with Phil Tagliatella’s grand daughter.

Anyone wishing to get in touch with Ralph “Blacky” Fasano, can e-mail his daughter at swilliams@countryoriginals.com

THE YEAR WAS 1949: The place: Lafayette HS dustbowl

I personally recall running laps after a rigorous workout and hearing guys muttering “he’s trying to kill us”.

Well, all you old timers from the 47 48 49 teams it didn’t get any better after you graduated. Recently, in corresponding with some guys who played after we graduated they informed me that Coach instituted two-a-days as part of his training program. Players arrived at 5am and practiced until 7:30am (went to class) and then returned at 1:30pm and practiced until 4:30. We just didn’t understand how lucky we were.

When I questioned the Coach about the veracity of that information he calmly responded that it was true and that at John Adams HS he also instituted Sunday practice.

If you think Coach Ostro was tough, I suggest you read,

“The Junction Boys” by Jim Dent.

Volume 34 January2007
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for the Coach

Coach is currently at his home in Marietta , Ga and will be returning to W. Babylon , NY in about two weeks.

Good news:

Received an e-mail from Don Kufert’s daughter and spent sometime with him on the phone. He was on our missing persons chart and I had been trying to locate him for over three years. Don was a member of the Lafayette HS team from 47-50 and was affectionately known as “Kufee” by all his team mates. I was fortunate to be with the team most of those years and I recall that Don never came off the field with a clean uniform. He was one of Ostro’s survivors and contributed greatly to the undefeated season. He would enjoy hearing from the guys he played with and can be contacted at: 718-854-3599

I had been trying to organize a mini reunion in Florida but it is not in the Coach’s plans to be visiting at this time.

For those of you who have not heard the news:

Lafayette HS will be closed as the last class graduates in three years.

It would have been nice to have a formal dedication of the new Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Complex and I will not give up trying to get it done as long as the school remains open.

Reminder:

February 19, 2007 is the Coach’s 92nd birthday.

Pay back time.

Call him or send a card to :

Coach Harry Ostro
Harbour Club
232 Milligan Road
W. Babylon, NY 11704

Tel: 631-587-4651
Got time on your hands?

Just finished reading: The Junction Boys by Jim Dent

Story about Coach Bear Bryant and 10 horrific days at training camp. Makes Coach Ostro look like Mother Theresa. Hard to believe but true. Of 120 guys who attended the camp only 40 made it to play that season.

Still looking for Ernie Mayer and Milford “Moose” Goldberg.

Coach Ostro would like to hear from Rudy Scala who played for him at John Adams HS.

Don Kufert advised me that copies of the Brooklyn Eagle from the “Ostro” years can be brought up at the main branch of the Brooklyn library. I will try to get my hands on some copies and post them to the website.

As always your comments, photos, memorabilia and suggestions are appreciated.

Stay well, stay in the game.

Vico for the Coach

Volume 32 November 2006
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

THE COACH IS BACK!
11.06

Ed. Note: I have prevailed upon the Coach to write a series of newsletters that include his most memorable recollections as a Coach and mentor of young men.

Wisdom of Age…………….by Coach Harry Ostro

At long last I’ve returned to my roots. It’s good to be back. I enjoy walking the Jones Beach boardwalk and breathing in the ocean breezes.
Recently I’ve been glued to the T.V. watching the Mets beat the L.A. Dodgers on the way to winning their division championship.
I’m the proud wearer of a N.Y. Mets jacket that Fred Wilpon gave me at one of the Bill Romano’s roof get togethers. In front of the jacket the word “Coach” appears, on the left sleeve is the #1 and on the back is my name.
How lucky I was to be at Lafayette H.S. at the time when Fred was there and his buddy Sandy Koufax. In my minds eye I see them both walking by me carrying their athletic bags on the way to the JCH to work out and play basketball.
Also as I watched T.V. I surfed and found the YES station. There was Larry Pasquale who is now a commentator on their football program. Larry played for us at Lafayette. Prior to being on the YES program Larry was the special team coach of the N.Y. Jets and the Jacksonville Jaguars.
I’ve been asked to name an all star team of players, in the 40 years I coached.
All those who wore the uniform are All Stars in my mind, from the bench warmers to the All Scholastic. They all had an important part in making our program successful.
In my reverie I look back at my first head coaching job. The’47 Lafayette Football Team, led by Vince Gargano. Upon graduation from Lafayette he starred at the University of South Carolina with his teammate Walter Shea. Vince helped coach the ’52 team. Vince was the Head Coach at Lincoln H.S. and was on the coaching staff of George Brancato (also of Lafayette football) when they were the Grey Cup champions in Canada.
I also remember Hal Seidenberg besides being All Scholastic went on to be a star at Cornell University.
I also remember Larry Merchant who also helped coach the ’52 team when he graduated from the University of Oklahoma. Larry was a sports columnist for the N.Y. Post and is now a commentator on the boxing events on HBO.
To my minds eye I remember Pete Kerkoff, Phil Unger, Dan Luciano (Appellate Court Judge).
As I write this I have some senior moments. Write to me and let me know who I left out!
I leave you with this. Don’t eat yourself up with, I could have, should have etc. Don’t have a self pity party. You can’t unscramble eggs. Don’t eat yourself up with what you don’t have, enjoy everyday with what you do have.
Don’t be against yourself, reprogram a negative attitude to a positive.
Remember, you don’t get ulcers from what you eat, but what is eating you.
Keep your eye on the doughnut, not on the hole.
I’m indebted to *Vico Confino, Lafayette football ’48 ‘49’ 50 who made the website possible.
Without the hard charging Vico, the letter would not have been possible.
Thanks Vico
All the very best to youall!

The Ole Coach,

* Ed note:
Go to www.freecondobook.com
Skip to page 10 and read what effect Coach Ostro had on my life after graduating from Lafayette H.S.
If you would like to post what effect being under the tutelage of the Coach had on your life, please send it to vico@maxsell.com

Stay well, stay in the game.
The best is yet to come.

PS
An update on the Lafayette field dedication.
At this point in time, only 5 responses have been received.
Please take a moment and advise if you will attend and if you have any other suggestions so that a decision can be made.

For the Coach

Volume 29 June 2006
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

To those who called, wrote or E-mailed me, please accept this belated note as my thanks and special appreciation. It helped to make my day.

I’ve been on the move the last few months. After visiting my wife’s gravesite on the anniversary of her death ( April 11th) at Arlington ( see photo attached).

I stayed at son Xan’s place in Odenton Md. For about a month. I then returned to my home in Georgia from where I am writing this letter.

In early June I’ll be heading back to Odenton. I’ll stay awhile and then sometime in the latter part of June I’ll leave for my summer home on Oak Island, N.Y. It is about ten minutes from Jones Beach on the causeway.

If you are in the area give me a call. My son Darel will pick you up at the Oak Island parking lot. He will help you park and by boat bring you to our house.

We could sit on the porch, have a Pepsi and shoot the breeze about old times.

Sometime in the latter part of August I shall return to my home in Marietta, GA.

Finally I sucked in my guts and began to gather my wife’s clothing and other possessions. While doing so I found some pictures of me that I did not see for over 50 years! (see attached photos). In speaking with Vico, I mentioned to him about the pictures. He showed an interest and I sent them to him.

I’ll place them on the wall in my home office. Although I’m not what I once was, looking at them will keep me young forever.

Stay in shape, Hang Tough & Never, Never Surrender.

Be a Victor not a Victim. Be the head not the tail.

The Ole Coach,

Photo #1
That’s the Coach on top
doing a “gymnast planche”.

Photo #2
Army file photo
Lt. Ostro (on left)

Photo #3
Coach on lifeguard duty at summer camp

Photo #4
Army file photo

Photo #5
Arlington National Cemetary
Audrey’s gravesite

Ed note;

Answers to last months quiz.

Red Lipman was football coach at Lafayette prior to the Coach

Marty Grossman was a guard on ’48 team

Stanley Silberg (Snoogie) played in 1947. Went on to teach

at New Utrecht HS.

Welcome back to the “Band of Brothers”.

Received an e-mail from Bob Kaplan who played in 1949. When I forwarded it to the Coach he told me that he remembered that “Bob” was always last taking laps and had to carry the tackling dummy back to the locker room.

Welcome back to :

Fred Labovitz team member in 1949 who relocated to Texas for his senior year. He went on to get a Phd in psychology and has written two fine books on the subject. Coach Angelo Plaia would enjoy hearing from you 516-248-3908

Still waiting to hear from Don Dempske team member in 1948-49.

Someone said they saw him last week still running laps at the Lafayette dust bowl.

Everything still OK in Brooklyn reports Sammy Mark (The Legend).

He along with Lenny Lefkowitz and Danny Teitlebaum spent an entire day visiting Nathan’s, Spumoni Gardens, Lafayette HS, Lincoln HS.

that roast beef joint (who remembers the name) in Sheepshead Bay. As soon as he sends in the photos I will put them up on the site.

Mike (Myron) Uhlberg of the 1948-49-50 team who ran for a game winning touchdown on a double reverse. He has just authored another best selling kids book about his memories of Ebbets Field and Jackie Robinson.

Vico Confino 1948-49-50 learned a valuable lesson and just had the cast removed from his broken wrist. Seventy Three year old man should not play basketball with 17 year old son. (“A man that won’t be hurt, can’t be hurt” Hey Coach…… It hurt !!

THIS & THATTA:

Did you know that actor Burt Lancaster was in PE class with Coach Ostro at NYU?

Did you know that Burt’s brother Harry Lancaster was the captain of NYU basketball team?

Did you know that the Coach played on the NYU team against Vince Lombardi of Fordham?

See photos:

Coach Ostro
“The real deal”

Vince Lombardi
“Block of granite”

Got time on your hands ?

Go to the library and read “When Pride Still Mattered” by David Maraniss. A great read about Coach Vince Lombardi.

Condomania

If you are buying, selling, renting or trapped in a condominium you can now read the best book ever written on the subject (that’s my opinion).

It’s FREE on the internet at www.freecondobook.com

I should know, I wrote it!

Stay well, stay in the game,

Vico

Volume 28 February 2006
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

I’m writing this letter from my son Xan’s home in Odenton, MD.

While in Maryland my son Darell joined us and we went to visit Audrey in Arlington. From there we went to the W.W. II, Korean and Vietnam Memorials. We showed our respect for our fallen heroes.

Before I left for Odenton I receive a phone call from Andrew Smith ( John Adams F.B. ) This was followed up by his sending me pictures of the 1966 team in his words written in the letter to me P.S.A.L Division I City Champs. It was good of Andrew to do this.

These pictures jogged what was embedded in my memory. The pictures and my conversation with him had me suiting up again, barking out commands enjoying the camaraderie and the spirit they showed. In my reverie I can suit up again but the reality is the Ole Grey Mare ain’t what he used to be. As Toby Keith said in his song “I ain’t what I once was”.

I was very proud to be their coach and I took my job seriously. I knew that my mission was to knit together a Band of Brothers who would respect each other, who would give of themselves for the team. To be good citizens on and off the field. That football was a part of the educational process. That they show the same drive and focus in one’s self confidence and self assurance and it is hoped it manifests itself in your relationship with others both on and off the field.

I know the high standards were set for all of you to follow and you passed the test.

I know I posted many fight signs all over the locker room and as Winston Churchill has said “wars are not won by fleeing from the enemy”.

“Winners never quit and quitters never win”
Let me end this letter with something from Rudyard Kipling
If you can dream and not make dreams your master
If you can think and not make thoughts your aims
If you can meet with triumph and disaster and treat these imposters the same
You’ll be a man my son.

And an extract from a poem by Edgar Guest
Sermons we See
I’d rather see a sermon than hear one any day
The lectures you may deliver may be wise and true,
but I’d rather get my lessons by observing you.

Don’t forget “The Man in The Glass”

God Bless

All the very best,

The Ole Coach,

Editors note:
I cannot impress upon the friends, faculty and former players of the Coach the importance of February 19, 2006 that he will be celebrating his 91st birthday.

He truly enjoys and appreciates hearing from all of you.

You can send a card to his home:
Coach Harry Ostro
1931 Pine Bluff N.E.
Marietta, Georgia 30062
Or just pick up a phone and call him:
1-770-509-6706

I have spoken with him about a reunion here in S. Florida sometime in late February or March and he wants it to happen. As soon as I receive word from him setting a date, I will do my darndest to make this an unforgettable event.

Trivia questions for Lafayette HS old time footballers.

Who was “ Red Lipman” ?
Who was “Stanley Silberg” ( Snoogie) ?
Who was “Marty Grossman” ?
Who was “Jimmy Murphy?
Who was “Paddlefoot” ?
What was the significance of the Coach’s fight sign posted in the Lafayette locker room “ 54-0”.

e-mail answers to:
vico@maxsell.com

Volume 27 December 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Greetings, it is the holiday season and when I received a phone call from a former player, it helps brighten my day. Nick Mattera, John Adams H.S. football called and as we talked he remembered the time in a pre season scrimmage against another school, he intercepted a pass and started toward the goal line. He didn’t see me as I ran toward the goal line with him from the sidelines. When he reached it he saw and expected me to congratulate him. Lo and behold, I threw my cap on the ground and started to chew him out. You horse’s ass, you forgot to yell out “Geronimo”. It was the signal to the players that we were moving from defense to offense and start blocking for the interceptor. I don’t think Nick was smiling after I chewed him out (at that time). I can imagine what he was thinking (at that time).

As we continued the conversation he told me of the time when he was a N.Y.C. cop (he is now retired from the NYPD) he was chasing down a bad guy and he yelled out “Geronimo” and before he knew it, he had a cadre of John Adams footballers who were also N.Y.C. cops lead by Joe Crispino helping Nick subdue the bad guy, cuff him and book him. It has been said that John Adam’s HS football was the farm team for the N.Y.C. Police Academy.

I’m sure you have had some experiences with the Coach when he chewed you out. I’m sure you weren’t smiling when and after I did it.

I’m now looking at a photo of the 1961 John Adams football team, which Rudy Scala gave me at a reunion. Written in the photo he writes, “I cherish the memories we shared all those years ago”.

Like Rudy, it is my hope that all the players that I coached at different schools treasure those experiences as much as I do.

I know I set the bar high. You met the challenge and passed the test. You all paid the price and it is the glue that keeps us together thru the years.

We have a Code of Honor and do not break it.

As I’ve said before, regardless of your status in life all you really have is your honor and integrity.

You may be knocked down but you don’t stay down. You will not suffer from give-up-itis.

As Winston Churchill said “Never surrender, never surrender”.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going and when bad things happen remember “Ne Illagunti Carborundum”

Enjoy the season with friends and family.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year’s and God bless.

The Ole Coach,

Editors note:

On February 19, 2006 the Coach will be celebrating his 91st birthday.
If you have not called or e-mailed him previously be advised that you will only have twenty-five more years to do so.

As 2005 draws to a close I want to wish each and every alumni player and friend of the Coach a very Merry Christmas, Happy Chanukah and blessed Kwanza.
It has been my privilege and honor to convey the Coach’s thoughts through this newsletter.
Your comments, photos, stories to share with all in this newsletter are always welcomed.

Vico

Volume 26 November 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Ed note:
A little late this month due to hurricane “Wilma”.

Things were a bit quiet in the Ostro household when a call from Vince Gargano helped brighten my day. As we talked, my minds eye focused on the picture of the undefeated 1947 Lafayette High School Football Team and Vince was the Captain of that team.

When Vince graduated from Lafayette he received a scholarship to the University of South Carolina, where he was a very important member of their football squad.

When he graduated from the University of South Carolina, he became a valued member of the coaching staff that helped me coach the nationally recognized Lafayette High 1952 team.

He later was the Head coach of the Lincoln High School football team. When he retired from the N.Y.C system he was on George Brancato’s ( also a Lafayette player) staff in the Canadian Football League where they were successful in winning the Grey Cup a number of times. Vince is retired and now living in Naples, FL.

In the same picture I see Larry Merchant who also was on the staff that helped coach the 1952 team. Larry is a graduate of the University of Oklahoma and his knowledge of the Oklahoma Split-T was appreciated. Larry was recently inducted into the Sports Commentators Hall of Fame.

The Lafayette ’47 team has a special place in my heart. It was my first Head Coaching year. It can’t be much better to go undefeated in your first year as Head Coach.

I’m indebted to all the players on that team from those who made All Scholastic to those who didn’t get in the game. Without them no one would have made the All Stars!!

I’m most appreciative of Bill Mongello’s e-mail to me. Bill visited with me at Oak Island this past summer. I will meet with my son’s during holiday season and decisions will be made whether I uproot myself and make a change to move.

As you prepare for the holidays it is a good time to reflect on what matters to you in your life. It is a good time to review “The Man In The Glass”, if you don’t pass the test.

Discipline your mind and yourself to make the necessary changes. Only you can make the change.

When all is said and done, all of you really have is your honor and integrity.

Whatever your goal, keep your eye on the doughnut and not upon the hole.

Have a happy Holiday.

The Ole Coach,

Ed. Notes;

Art Metrano traveled to Heritage Hills Playhouse in Somers, NY and performed to SRO (standing room only ) on both nights.
He is back home in Florida and is writing a story about his unbelievable adventure in Somers.Coach’s son Darel attended and not only enjoyed the show but was thrilled to finally meet in person “The Legend”, Sammy Mark.
Sammy recently returned from a trip to California where he met with Mike Uhlberg ( 1950 ) and Tommy La Spada ( 1949 ) ,
Photo attached: left to right: Mike U, Tommy, Sammy.

Anyone with information about the following football alumni please e-mail to: vico@maxsell.com

Don Dempske
George Miller
Donald Kufert
Jerry Friedman
Mike Kmech
Joe Masiello
Sam Rutigliano
Ernie Mayer
Sal Alvino
Bobby Kaplan
Lou Montano

If you would like this newsletter sent to other alumni please forward their e-mail address to : vico@maxsell.com

This n thatta:

An interesting note. I met Jay Gruden, the Head Coach of the Orlando Predators an arena football league team and during the course of talking football he related to me how Coach George Brancato was instrumental in installing “half back in motion out of the backfield” when the league was being formed.

It has been one of the most exciting innovations to the game of football and certainly warrants you taking a look see, this upcoming season, that begins right after the NFL super-bowl.

As always you are all invited to contribute photos and comments to this newsletter. E-mail to vico@maxsell.com

Photo of Sammy etc.

Photo of Vico and Mike

Volume 25 October 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

I'm now at my digs on Black Jack mountain in Marietta, GA
Before I left Odenton, MD. Rich Kaufman (Lafayette) took my son Xan and me out to dinner.
Rich now lives in Bethesda MD. He retired as the general counsel of the Congressional Economic Committee. In his retirement among other things he is a successful painter of art. Recently his paintings were shown in Berkley Springs West Virginia and those who attended admired them and purchased them. He has been invited back and will have another showing there in Oct. or Nov.
Most of my activity at my home is spent trimming bushes, raking leaves etc. I don't mind doing it. I like being outdoors. I really don't spend that much time on it. I take a lot of breaks, my energy level isn't what it used to be. I like listening to the song by Toby Keith " I ain't what I once was.
I like country music. Larry King's wife Dawn King has an album out called in "My Backyard". It is a good one.
Vico sends me copies of e-mail from the website. I enjoy reading them. They motivate me. It's as if I'm back at Lafatyette and Adams. I'm ready to suit up and get out on the football field. I can't help but remember barking out commands at Lafayette field. A truck stops by and the driver goes over to the link fence and yells out " Lt. Ostro it can only be him". I go to the fence, lo and behold he was a former soldier who was under my command when I was CO of 1140 M P Company Avn in Prestwich, Scotland.
I believe he was with me when we took a squad to ride fence for Secretary of War Henry L. Stimson when he went to look for the Loch Ness monster at Loch Lomone. Can't beat that kind of duty.
I'm fortunate to have some positive experiences. As I sit in my office and look at the pictures on the wall, I look back at my basic training days at Camp Wheeler, Macon, GA
Pictures of me doing push-ups leading the battalion during their physical training at Camp Luna, Las Vegas New Mexico. Yes, there is a Las Vegas in New Mexico. I was there with the guys in the desert.
A picture of me at the poolside at Mc Closkey General Hospital, Temple, TX where I was recovering from my war wounds and was retired from the Army.
Camp Wheeler, Camp Luna and Mc Closkey General Hospital are no longer in existence but this Old Geezer keeps on ticking.
I've been blessed, I have some good memories and most of all how fortunate I have been to be associated with you all !!
Stay well and NEVER SURRENDER, stay positive avoid negative people. Avoid being negative yourself. That is too much baggage to carry. When life gives you a lemon make it into lemonade. Don't be bitter, just get better. If you take a licking, shake it off and keep on ticking.
As Charles Swindell states in his paper on ATTITUDE, " I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react too it. And so it is with you.......we are in charge of our attitudes.
Que Sera Sera!
All the very best

The Ole Coach,

Ed Note:
You can call the Coach. He truly enjoys hearing from former players, friends, and alumni.
1-770-509-6706

If you have the e-mail address of someone who would like to receive the Coach's newsletter, please
e-mail to: vico@maxsell.com
This n That:
Mel Freibaum has moved to his new home in Riverview, Florida
The "Legend" Sammy Mark will celebrate his .... birthday on Nov. 1st
Art Metrano just returned from a trip to Thailand and reports the Thai people were most friendly and gracious.
Spoke with Billy Romano and he says "All is well in Brooklyn".
Lenny Lefkowitz is still happy as a kid in a candy store with his new kidney.
Judge Danny Luciano still making the world a better place for all of us.
Never too late to get in shape. I joined the local YMCA on July 1st and so far have lost 20 pounds and if invited, I would take the field tomorrow. Working out with free weights and a diet of healthy foods can really work wonders.
Comments, photos, memorabilia are always welcome. e-mail: vico@maxsell.com
P.S.
I called Lafayette H.S. and asked to speak with Principal Alan Siegel and was told that he had retired.
" The first casualty of war, is the truth" – Hiram Johnson

Volume 24 September 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

I am writing this letter from my son Xan's home in Odenton, MD.

While I was at Oak Island I was invited by Sam DeLuca for lunch with him and Lowell Chereskin. It was good of Sam to do this. Sam and Lowell played on the same team at both Lafayette High and South Carolina. Sam is in the University of South Carolina's Hall of Fame. Sam Played on the same team with Joe Namath. Sam was the Cap't of that team. I have a photograph of Sam sitting on the bench next to Joe. Sam using a towel to clean his face and nose of the blood on it, and Joe with his clean uniform writes "Thanks Sam for giving your blood for me".

Bill Mongello visited with me at my home on Oak Island. It was good to talk to him about his experiences on the team when I was the coach.

I did receive calls from Dr. Herb Tanzer, Eugene Goldenberg, Larry Merchant, Mel Freibaum, Rudy Pastercyck, Rich Kaufman.

As I have said in the past, these phone calls, letters and get togethers are chicken soup for my soul.

Before I left the Island I was invited to Ang Palumbo's home for a get together with Alan Schwaber, Rudy Pastercyck and Jerry Bialik and my son Darel. Ang's wife set a great table for us. I sure love the potato salad she makes. I look forward to getting the recipe.

While at Odenton, my son's Darel and Xan and I went to Arlington to check out the headstone on Audrey's grave. While there I noticed that underneath some stones was a scrap of paper. When I picked it up it was a note to Audrey from Art Metrano. How good of him to do this. What a class act. It certainly helped brighten my day. Art Metrano is an example that it is difficult to defeat someone who gets off the mat one more time.

He has not allowed an almost fatal injury from preventing him from carrying on in his particular talent.

Gene Goldenberg tells me that Art will perform his "Metrano's Accidental Comedy" in Somers, New York sometime in November.

I'm sure Vico will keep you informed of the exact time and place of Art's performance. If you are in the area or not too far from it, it will be worth your while to see it and visit with him.

All my very best,

The Ole Coach,

Go Go Geronimo

Ed note:

For info about seeing Art Metrano's performance, contact Gene Goldenberg at 914-669-5917

or via e-mail at goldenberg@suscom.net

This is a show I have seen 3 times and I urge you to make every effort to see a truly magnificent performance that you will never forget.

( Happy Birthday, Art )

For those of you who do not personally know Art, go to the search engine "Google" and type in his name, Art Metrano.

To those of you who have still not taken that moment to call or write the Coach, he will be back in Marietta, GA on Sept. 10th Dial: 770-509-6706

The most powerful 2 letter word sentences are:
"If It Is To Be
It Is Up To Me"
Just do it!

Comments, photos, stories from the past for the website are always appreciated.
Exercise !
It adds years to your life,
and life to your years.

The poem that follows was written in tribute to Audrey Ostro by a neighbor on Oak Island.

The Walking Stick

Written in memory of Audrey Ostro

by Susan Stanco

Many years of marriage ended today. As you my beloved drew your last breath while whispering my name.

I held your soft hand as I felt that last quiet breath ease out of your body, giving your spirit legs allowing you to walk alone toward divine peace.

Time has passed since you have passed. Now I sit alone looking through the window at the velvet green path we used to walk together hand in hand.

Until that day that my body grew tired and I needed to be upheld as we walked. It was then that you gave me my precious Walking Stick so that once again we could walk hand in hand walking without interruption. Now that I walk alone physically I always walk with you by my side,

As I hold my Walking Stick

Volume 23 August 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

It is good to be back at my wife's beloved Oak Island. I sit at our dock and watch the boats go by. It isn't the same without my bride of 57 years at my side.
In the silence in the house I'll evaluate the options open to me of how and where in the twilight of my life I will live. I hope I make the right choice.
The killer heat here has kept me close to the "plantation" there were some nights when there wasn't any cool breeze emanating from the Great South Bay. We escaped the heat by going to a motel in BayShore and enjoyed the air conditioning.
I can't believe that it is almost August as I write this letter.
In about 2 weeks my son Darel will drive me to my son
Xan's home. He is only about 30 minutes from Arlington. From there we will go to the cemetery to check out the headstone and tell Audrey how much we miss her!
After I rest awhile at Xan's home he will drive me to my home on Black Jack Mountain in Marietta, GA
I would have rather met with you in person and shaken your hands instead of speaking to you through E-mail.
All the best to you all, stay strong.
When the going gets tough-The tough get going.
Ne Illegitimus Carborundum

The Ole Coach,

Ed note:
The Coach will be at his Oak Island home until August 15th.
Now is the time for all former players, alumni and friends to contact him via phone, e-mail or for those who are not too far away, give him a call and visit with him on the island.
The Coach has expressed his desire to make a trip to South Florida in September or October.
If it does come to pass, rest assured there will be a player reunion.

From the Coach's motivational book:
Exercise !
It adds years to your life
and life to your years.

All comments and suggestions to be included in this newsletter are always welcome.
Sidebar:
Those of you who will be watching the enshrinement at the Football Hall Fame in Canton, Ohio pay attention to Coach Benny Friedman ( Brandeis U. )
He was a friend of Coach Ostro for many years.
During the 1949-50 Lafayette H.S. football season quaterback Joe Darienzo was injured just before a big game against arch rival New Utrecht.
Although backup quarterback Mike Uhlberg had never played in a regular season game he had to replace Joe D. for the this game.
The game was hard fought and not until the very end when the Coach sent in a special play ( a double reverse) and Uhlberg ran for the game winning touchdown.
Although Mike had no credentials to receive a football scholarship ( the only way he could have gone) Coach Ostro contacted his old friend Benny Friedman and Mike was awarded a full scholarship to Brandeis U.
Life takes many twists and turns and who knows what would have been Mike's future without attending college. As it turns out Mike went on to become a prolific writer of nationally acclaimed children's books ( you can get them for your grandkids at your local library or go to Amazon.com and type in his pen name Myron Uhlberg.
Mike will be attending the ceremonies at Canton, Oh and you may see him cheering like crazy when Coach Friedman is immortalized.
To learn more about why Benny Freidman is being enshrined in the Football Hall of Fame, go to search engine Google and type in his name.
Just one of many stories of how Coach Ostro changed the lives of so many young men.
If you know of other similar stories please forward them to vico@maxsell.com

Volume 22 July 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Here I am on the dock at our home in my wife's beloved Oak Island.
As I inhale the salt air of the Great South Bay, I can't help but reflect on the events of the last few months.
I think of you who have sent cards, written letters and e-mails and those who phoned me.
Please accept this belated note as my special thanks and appreciation for having done so. It helps brighten my day in a very difficult time in my life. For this I will be ever grateful.

I also can't forget the courageous battle my wife made against this dreaded pancreatic cancer. My sons Darel & Xan were with her 24/7 in this battle.
It was our aim to get her to Oak Island one more time. But the cancer defeated us and it still eats us up that we couldn't make it, especially when we talk about it.
This daughter of the American Revolution showed what she was made of. This teacher of students in Staunton, VA, Tenafly N.J. and Hicksville L.I. N.Y.
This Head waterfront counselor at Camp Berkshire, Conn. (where we met) who taught young girls to swim, to row and to sail.
Wherever she taught she spoke about the need to be responsible citizens. It was a very important part of her lesson plans.
She never failed to talk about personal integrity and ethical moral values. She spoke about there traits but the students learned these values by OBSERVING her. She not only talked about it but lived it. She walked the talk.
My side kick is no longer with me. In my minds eye I zero in on Sir Lancelot as he cheered on his courageous warriors.
"Fight on my men, a little I'm hurt but not yet slain, I'll sit and bleed awhile and than rise to fight again".
And this leads me to the words in Ecclesiastes
"A time to be born, A time to die, a time to break down and build up. A time to weep a time to mourn.
Now it is time for me to suck in my guts. To stand up and hook-up and get out the door and jump into the realities of life. To always remember Audrey De Mott Ostro for her grit and grim determination and who never gave up on principle.
Hasta La Vista Audrey....See you in Arlington!!
All the very best to you all,

The Ole Coach,

P.S. I hope to be able to visit with you while I am on Oak Island. I want to shake your hand and thank you in person.

Ed Note:
No doubt about it "THE COACH IS BACK"
I think we should all take a moment and re-read the "Man in the Glass".
Then sit down and write, call or e-mail the Coach with your thoughts as he struggles through this most difficult time in his life.
Can any of us do any less?

That's right, I'm talkin to you.

Volume 20 May 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Vico for Coach Harry Ostro

Audrey Ostro was interred at Arlington National Cemetery on April 26th.
In attendance were the Coach his sons Darrel and Xan and family members.
The impressive military ceremony on this beautiful spring day touched the hearts of all present.
The Coach would like to thank all who called and sent cards of condolence during this difficult time.
If you would like to speak with him, he will be at home in Marietta, Ga until the end of May, then travel north to spend time with his son Darrel in New Jersey and then on to Oak Island, NY for the summer.

A special thanks from me to those who I reached out to for help in seeing the Coach through this period of mourning.

“You can take the boy out of Brooklyn but you can’t take the “Brooklyn” out of the boy”. Guys whom I had not spoken to in 50 years, stepped up without hesitation and took my calls.

“And when one final scorer comes to write against your name, he asks not if you won or lost. But how you played the game”.

Grantland Rice

If you are planning on being in South Florida sometime this summer, let me know and I will gladly coordinate a get-to-gether.

Dis n’ data

Lenny Lefkowitz recovering well from his kidney transplant and happy as a … .. …. ( you fill in the words)
Sammy Marks “The Legend”, named Mr. Timex of the year….takes a licking and keeps on ticking”.
George Broncato of Canadian Football fame still in the game.
Coach Vincent Gargano and Walter Shea now residing in Naples, FL
Art Metrano off to England and Italy. It’s a long road to Broadway in the Big Apple and Art is unstoppable!
Richie Kaufman retired from Capitol Hill now enjoying a new found talent in painting, with a one man show.
Tommy La Spada recovering from open heart surgery could use some chicken soup. Give him a call.
Sam De Luca and Noel Chereskin attended “Metrano’s Accidental Comedy” in N.Y. and were blown away.
Ciro Masso can’t get enough soft ball. Now playing in two leagues.
Vico Confino (that’s me) invited to work out with the Orlando Predators Arena football team in Orlando, FL ( I said workout, not play).

From the Coach’s well of anecdotes:
“There was a very cautious man who never laughed or cried.

He never risked, he never lost, he never won or tried.

And one day he passed away.... his insurance was denied.

For since he never really lived, they claimed he never died”.
THE GAME IS NOT OVER !
All photos, comments etc. are welcome for inclusion in this newsletter.

Stay well,
Vico for Coach Harry Ostro

Volume 19 April 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

by Vico

As I noted in the last newsletter the Coach is devoting every waking minute to the care of his wife Audrey.
He asked that I keep this newsletter going until he can get back in the game.
He does appreciate hearing from his former players and faculty alumni.
Take a minute and give him a call any day after 5PM at : 770-509-6706 or send a get well card to Audrey Ostro
1931 Pine Bluff N.E. Marietta, GA 30062
Or you can just hit the reply button on this letter and send the Coach some comments etc. I will make sure he sees everyone of them.
I'd like to pass along some comments from former players who have been in contact with me.
Recently spoke with Art Metrano who has spent the past week in New York putting on his one man show "Metrano's Accidental Comedy" for some investors interested in bringing it to BROADWAY! Art has been voted "MR. INDESTRUCTIBLE" of 2005 by this column. All those who know Art, know the difficult road he has traveled and prevailed. I will update you when Art returns from N.Y.
Sammy Mark "The Legend" advised me that Lenny Lefkowitz recently received a kidney transplant and is now recuperating at home. I spoke with Lenny on Sunday and he is in good spirits. After being on the waiting list for a kidney donor for over 17 months, a MIRACLE happened. Some of the coast-to coast players in this miracle were, Koufax, Wilpond and one whose name I did not get, but is a "cab driver". It is the "Ninth Wonder of the World" and you will have to speak with Lenny to get the rest of the story.
Give him a call at: 732-617-0446 or send him a note at his new residence Lenny Lefkowitz 28 Calder Court Marlboro, NJ 07746
Old centers never die, "they just hike away".
Mel Friebaum, Lafayette football center has been coaching high school football in Tampa FL since he retired 15 years. Another "Ostro" disciple, Mel has been training high school kickers with great success. His punter was #1 in the County and his kicker was #2 in the County two years ago ( quite a record, he made 40 out of 42 PAT's) Also kicked a couple of field goals from 51 and 57 yards). As soon as Mel recuperates from his recent knee replacement he will be visiting FAU (Florida Atlantic University) to visit with one of his protégés currently with the football team.

I have invited Mel to be Head Kicking Coach on our Senior Football League team, as soon as I can find one of our players who can stand up on one leg without falling down.

From the Coach's collection of anecdotes:

"You get treated the way you let yourself be treated"

From sunny and getting hotter everyday Florida, I look forward to hearing from you,

Vico

Aside: The Coach has been asking about Phil Unger and Larry Merchant. RSVP

Volume 18 March 2005
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

From Vico on request of the Coach

The Coach's 90th birthday celebration has been postponed due to the illness of his wife Audrey.
There is a saying, "That alongside every great man stands the greater woman".
All those fortunate to have been in the company of Audrey know that she has "stood by her man" through sickness and health, through good times and bad, always with a good word and a cheerful smile.
She is now undergoing extended treatment for an illness that we all hope can be put into remission.
At this time the Coach is marshalling all his strength to care for Audrey.
If you would like to e-mail him to express your feelings and support please do so. coachharryostro@coachharryostro.com
He can usually be reached by phone at home during the day between 4 and 6 pm if you would like to speak with him.

770-509-6706

It has been my privilege and honor to have been in contact with the Coach for the past 20 years.
Whatever you think his greatness is, multiply it by a million and you will still be short a gazillion.
Prior to the internet we exchanged letters for many years. He often included proverbs that I have kept in my file.
I will pass them on to you and hope that you will pass them on to your loved ones.
" It is difficult to defeat someone who is willing to get up one more time"
To all alumni, friends and former players, THE GAME IS NOT OVER YET !
Take a moment of your time and do what your heart tells you to do.

Stay well,

NIL DESPERENDUM ( the best is yet to be ) I got it from the Coach.

Vico

P.S.
As to the question I posed in the last newsletter about Coach Vince Lombardi and Coach Ostro, the answer is @%*$% @$%^ (&%$##r% @#%&&% &$%@^ &%##%.

Volume 15 December 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

As my family and I prepare for the holiday season I want to send our greeting to the "Band of Brothers" from Lafayette & Adams football.
As I write this note I can't overlook the brave troops who are on foreign soil, these gallant warriors who suit up everyday, check their equipment and move out to take on these fanatical terrorists who want to take away our way of life and freedom.
Recently I received a call from Frank Ricca, John Adams football Co-Cap't of the '75 team. In our conversation he indicated the standards that were set for the football squad not only helped while a student at the school but in later professional life. He has posted some of the fight talks I gave to the team in his office but the one he mentioned most is the "The Man In The Glass".
I owe a debt of gratitude to my former students, players and friends who have contributed so much to the Coach Harry Ostro website. This website has made it possible for me to be in contact with former players, other students and faculty members.
I regularly receive hard copies of the e-mail that are sent to the site. I have organized them in a booklet and I read them regularly.
They make my day!
My best and thanks to you all,

The Ole Coach,

Ed notes:
Please e-mail any stories, photos of the Lafayette H.S. and John Adams H.S. football teams of the Coach Harry Ostro era to
www.coachharryostro.com
for posting on the site. It was a time and place in our lives that I doubt will ever be duplicated.
It takes only a few minutes to contribute your fading memories that will live on through the miracle of the internet.
Mail to:
Vico Confino
4400 W. Hillsboro Blvd.
Suite 2
Coconut Creek, Fl 33073

Update: Former Lafayette All-City football player and star of stage, screen and TV (remembered most for his Police Academy scenes as Lt. Mauser) Art Metrano's one man show "Accidental Comedy" played at the Cuillo Theatre in W. Palm Beach, Fl during the month of November.
Each performance closed with a standing ovation for Art. Plans are in the works to bring this show to Broadway in NYC (where it belongs).

Former Lafayette H.S. football player Mel Friebaum will undergo a replacement knee procedure in December. You can e-mail him at
melandsis@aol.com

Please advise if you will be visiting Florida this winter along with the dates so that a mini-get together can be arranged.
Sammy Mark a/k/a " The Legend " would like to hear from his thousands of friends and admirers. e-mail him at:
samnre@aol.com

Volume 13 September 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

I'm now back in Georgia from a nice stay on Long Island. There I had the good fortune to be with former players and revisit old times. It makes me feel so proud of the respect and love they have for each other. As Mrs. Angelo Palumbo ( Ang played for me at Lafayette and replaced me as head football coach at John Adams when I retired) said to me at their home, " After all these years it is nice to them hugging and kissing each other".
When I was at Bill Romano's I went to check out the new Lafayette High Athletic Complex. It was a great site for these old eyes to see. As I stood there my mind slowly drifted back to the time when I was coaching on the old practice field. I suited up again in my coach's uniform leading the warm up drills, running and jumping again, barking out commands and participating in the drills. At the same time wondering how the players would have reacted to practicing in such a facility and playing before their school mates and the local community. I feel it would have been a thrill for them and me. ( In my time there we never had a home game. The schedule may have named us the hometeam but not at Lafayette Field).
As I sit here on my deck in Georgia watching the branches of the oak tree swinging in the wind, I think of you guys and those times. It energizes me. I'm back in action again. I get off my lounge start barking out commands ( I'm lucky there is good distance between homes) and start doing push-ups. ( Don't tell my Dr. )
It makes me happy- I was lucky to be there with you all !!

The Ole Coach,

Ed. note:
The Coach would enjoy hearing from you. Take a minute and drop him a line. Or e-mail him at harryo@coachharryostro.com
Mail address: 1931 Pine Bluff N.E. Marietta, Ga 30062

Anyone knowing the whereabouts of Gabe Verde, friends are looking for him to attend a reunion.

The date for the opening of Art Metrano's stageplay at the the Cuillo Theatre in W. Palm Beach, Fl is November 3rd.
Plans are in the making to have the Coach and his family at one of the performances. If this can be arranged the date will be e-mailed to all. It would be great to have it as an all Lafayette, John Adams night celebration and dedication of the Coach Harry Ostro Athletic
Facilitiy. Start passing the word around communicating with Vico with any other ideas to make this the night of the Century.

Volume 12 August 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

I arrived at my summer home at Oak Island on Long Island on the 1st of July. I send greeting to you all with the wish that all is going well.

I always look forward to being here in N.Y. because it's a return to my roots. It is where I spent most of my youth and where I taught and coached football at Boys High , Lafayette High and John Adams High.

As in the past a great deal of my time is spent in get together with former footballers. It is real chicken soup for my soul as we rehash the "good old days". It is heart warming to note how the players have kept in touch with each other since their High School days. It is a fine example of their loyalty and respect towards one another. To me they are a real Band of Brothers.

I received a photograph of the New Lafayette H. S. Athletic Facility which has been called The Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Facility.

I'm humbled by this honor.

This is as good as it gets for a kid from Brooklyn. I'm indebted to all you students and athletes who made this possible.

I would like to thank you all in person.

All the best,

The Ole Coach,

Ed. note:

The Coach along with Sam DeLuca, Angelo Palumbo attended the annual John Adams H.S. reunion in July. He reported that it was a fantastic affair.

He is getting in shape now to attend the Billy Romano "roof-in" in August. To those who are not familiar with this annual get together it is an endurance test of Olympic proportions. Each attendee must climb 4 flights of stairs to get to the now famous "roof" (the building does NOT have an elevator).

We welcome back to the "Band of Brothers", Frank Lima of the great 1947-48 Lafayette squad. Frank has supplied photos and newspaper clips from that era that have been posted to this website and can be viewed at: http://www.coachharryostro.com/photos1.htm

Sammy Mark is home after his week in isolation at a N.Y. hospital. Known to all as "The Legend" Sammy would enjoy hearing from you. (732) 928-3385

A "giant among Giants" it's a pleasure to report that Art "Harpo" Metrano star of stage, screen, TV and any gathering that will give him time to perform has signed to do his one man play "Accidental Comedy" at the Cuillo theatre in West Palm Beach, Florida. To those of you who do not know Art, he is a kid from Brooklyn who had the guts and determination to reach for the stars and became one. If you have not seen his stellar performance you are missing a fantastic night showcasing his talent. The show opens Oct. 1st and continues for 4 weeks. If you will be in Florida at that time or have friends who reside there, please tell them about it. (Ed. note: Call me toll free for info: 1-877-332-2343).

No word yet on when the Coach Ostro field will be dedicated. Stay tuned.

A Reminder from this writer (Vico Confino): If you are buying, selling, renting or trapped in a Condominium you will want to read a book titled “The Wrath of Condo”. It is currently out of print and to keep this true story alive I have posted my book on the Internet to help those who may profit from my experiences or those who would enjoy reading a unique true story. Go to: www.freecondobook.com

Volume 10 June 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

From the Coach’s Desk
June Newsletter

I have just received a most welcome call from Ang Plaia's wife. She told me that Ang was inducted into the Oceanside H.S. Hall of Fame. They couldn't have had a better candidate. Ang coached with me at Lafayette High. The players and students he taught in his classes were enriched by his knowledge his sense of humor and his strong ethical values. Lafayette's loss, Oceanside gain.
I'm now preparing to make my move back to Long Island for the summer. I intend to stay through Labor Day.
On my way up I will stop at the World War II memorial and then I will spend sometime at the Vietnam memorial. I intend to visit with Pat Epps and John Sibilly (John Adams H.S.) and tell them how proud I am of them.
I will then visit the Korean War memorial and visit with Mitch Weinberg (Lafayette H.S.) and tell him how we miss him and honor him. Mitch was killed when he parachuted into Kimpo Airbase in Korea.
When at Oak Island I intend to attend the get together of the Adams football group of the 60's.
Nick Mattera does a professional job in organizing the affair.
I also look forward to attending the luncheons of the Adams H.S. retired faculty group. If Bill Romano's (Lafayette H.S.) is having his "roof in", it is a great opportunity to meet with Old teammates.
If you are in the Jones Beach area, Oak Island is only a 10 minute drive on the causeway. Better yet give me a call and I will pick you up by boat at our parking lot. If you are riding by Oak Island, give me a holler and I will meet you at my dock. Tel. #631-587-4651

The Ole Coach,

Ed. Note
Howie Rosenthal (Lafayette) sent in a photo of the new Lafayette Athletic Complex showing the Coach's name in big bold letters across the top. The Coach was overjoyed when he saw the photo and commented he wouldn't believe it until he saw it.
I have not received any information concerning the date of the formal dedication of the new field.
Doc Sherman's son Gary advised that the "Doc" (now 92) has not been well and all means are being pursued to have him attend a ceremony dedicating the new field in his name as soon as possible.
Sammy Mark (The Legend) will be in isolation for a week at the end of this month in a New York hospital. Give him a call so he can tell you about his contribution to just about every sport he played ( cell #732-513-4819).

Factoid:
Did you know that Jay Fielder - Miami Dolphin Quarterback was coached by Coach Angelo Plaia?

Volume 9 May 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Coach Harry Ostro's Newsletter
by Vico Confino
I am writing this letter for the Coach as he is recuperating from a fall while doing some yard work at his home in Marietta.
Sitting in a chair is not for the Coach and I know he would enjoy hearing from you via e-mail or telephone.
I have been in contact with Alan Siegel ( Principal Lafayette H.S.) and he mentioned that the sign dedicating the field to the Coach has been erected. It would be appreciated if anyone living in the area of the school would take a digital photo and e-mail it to: vico@maxsell.com for posting on the website.
Still no decision on when the official dedication of the complex will be held.
Contributions in the form of photos, news clippings or alumni happenings would be much appreciated for posting on the net.
Take a minute and give the Coach a call.

Alumni news:
Art Metrano (Lt. Mauser from Police Academy films) is negotiating doing his play ( Art Metrano's Accidental Comedy) at the Cuello Theatre in West Palm Beach, Fl beginning in October 2004.
Joe Ianuzzi is recovering from surgery and would like to hear from friends.
Larry Laurie who played football for Lafayette H.S. in '53 recently passed away. We offer our condolences to his wife and family.
Vico Confino (that's me) has posted his book "The Wrath of Condo" on the internet for those interested in a unique adventure he experienced in "Condomania". Go to: www.freecondobook.com
Lots of great information about buying, selling or renting a condominium, and it's FREE !

Definitely need more input from former John Adams H.S. football alumni 1957-1977. E-mail to vico@maxsell.com
The annual get-together of players and friends is scheduled for July. Will post date and place as soon as someone sends it to me.
The Coach is planning on attending. If you want to spend some time in the presence of a great human being and football coach, plan on being there.

Stay well,
For the Coach
Vico

Volume 8 April 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

From the Coach’s Desk
April Newsletter

On March 25th, I received an e-mail from a Bob Hliboki Lafayette class of 1954.
Ed note: Go to icon “Letters to the Coach Lafayette” to read this letter.
In it he states although not a participant in sports at the school, the success of the football program gave him and others a sense of pride and a sense of being part of something that he would never forget. “Neither will I”.
I write this because I want you all to know the affect you had on your fellow students and to know how honored I was to read his letter and the nice things he said in it.
You guys made it all possible by your grit, grim determination and loyalty.
You may not know that I do not play with the computer very much.
Vico sends me hard copies of your letters. That is the reason I may be slow in responding to your letters.
I look forward to hearing from you – Lafayette and John Adams alumni.
All the very best,

The Ole Coach,

Ed. Note:
The Coach is currently working on putting in writing the “Golden Years” at Lafayette and John Adams into what may become a book.
Your contributions are requested about special events, special happenings, your involvement in the years from 1947 -1957 at Lafayette and 1957-1977 at John Adams. Photos, newspaper articles about how things were during those special years are appreciated.
The Coach enjoys hearing from you either by phone or mail:
Coach Harry Ostro
1931 Pine Bluff N.E.
Marietta, GA 30062

Tel. (770) 509-6706

Volume 7 March 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

From the Coach's Desk:
To those who called me on the phone or sent me birthday greetings. Please accept this note as my special thanks and appreciation for doing so. It was good of you to do it. As I've said before it is the chicken soup for my soul.
I hit 89....Now I'm preparing for the big 90.
The game plan is to take one day at a time and to meet any challenges they present. To roll with the punch and remember to "nil desperendum"....the best is yet to be.
I love shooting the breeze with you all and I look forward to saying thanks in person.
A winner never quits.................
All the very best

The Ole Coach,

Ed: note
A John Adams football alumnus( Bill Ruland) has suggested that an annual game between Lafayette H.S. and John Adams H.S. be placed on the PSAL schedule as a perpetual honor to the Coach. Coach Ostro and Coach Weitzen (John Adams) have both consented and the idea will be pursued with the powers to be.
At the upcoming dedication of the "Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Complex" a brief scrimmage between the two schools to honor the Coach is also being considered.
If you have any ideas or comments or would like to help in making the dedication ceremony a blast, please e-mail me vico@maxsell.com

P.S.
A recent all year reunion of Lafayette H.S. alumni was held at the Signature Grand in Davie, Fl.
It is believed that the attendance was over 1,000.
Photos from this event will be posted as soon as received.

As you travel the road of life,
should you meet someone who
has lost their smile
Give them YOURS !

Volume 6 February 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Ed: note
In the newsletter for February the Coach is referring to an e-mail he received from (Dr.) Herb Tanzer. It is a most powerful tome on the positive effect the Coach had on the life of one of his players. At this writing I am waiting for permission from Herb to reprint his letter on the website.
February Newsletter 2004

From: Harry O
In the e-mail to me Dr. Herb Tanzer (Lafayette) mentions my half time talk when we were behind 7-6 versus Brooklyn Tech. Despite my fight talk we did not win the game. He stated he still remembers that experience and my talk to this very day. Losing is not an experience we were used to. However, we did not beat up on ourselves. We looked upon it as a set back. I did not want the players to get a black belt in the blame game. For ex. blaming the officials throwing the flag and calling back our touchdown. We worked hard on our mistakes and came back as winners. One is evaluated how they react to adversity and they met the test.
Rudyard Kipling in the poem "IF", states "If you can meet triumph and disaster and treat those imposters the same, you will be a man my son".
I was in Scotland during the Buzz bomb attacks on London. On the radio I listened to a real fight talker, Winston Churchill. His speeches helped the Londoners maintain their spirit.
Herb in his work in India, through him there are people there who teach their children that a "quitter never wins and a winner never quits" plus other Harryisms. WOW!
Thanks Herb.
In another e-mail to me Tom Redmond (John Adams) sent me a copy of Sgt. John R. Sibilly U.S. Marine Corp. posthumous citation of awarding him the Silver Star for bravery in Vietnam.
"Though wounded by an enemy grenade, he continued to encourage his men until he was carried from the field where he succumbed to his mortal wounds. He gallantly gave his life for his country.
I'm going to frame this citation. It will always have a special place in my office and in my heart..
John being a Marine reminded me of the Creed of the Lafayetted H.S. player ( I don't remember if I followed through on it at John Adams).
The creed was taken from the Mrine Corps "My Rifle".
I substituted team for rifle. (click here to read entire creed)
In reading the Creed, it reminded me of the contract sent to players at John Adams to be signed by their parents. (click here to read it).
I talk a lot about character. I can talk about it until the cows come home. The challenge of football and combat, when the going gets tough can reveal it. What you are speaks louder than what you say. Some believe character is caught not taught.
The riders of the bench are as important as the starters. We couldn't win without them. They should never be mocked or abused. the starters should thank them for reporting to practice everyday and refusing to quit.
I want to thank all who have written me or told me personally that the lessons learned on the football field helped through life and after fooball, especially in Vienam.
Remember Old Glory, Support the Troops

God Bless you all,
The Ole Coach

P.S. On February 19th Coach Harry Ostro will be 89 years young.
In the game of football he is more than a legend....he is a shining "ICON"
Take a minute and call him on his birthday. Send an e-mail if you cannot call.

Send a birthday card to:
Coach Harry Ostro
1931 Pine Bluff N.E.
Marietta, GA 30062-3806

Tel. 770-509-6706

e-mail: ostromail@coachharryostro.com

Vico

"For when one great scorer
Comes to mark against your name,
He writes not, that you won or lost
But how you played the game".
-Grantland Rice

PP.S. There will be an all years Lafayette H. S. alumni reunion in Florida on Sunday February 22, 2004 at the Signature Grand. It is located at 6900 State Road 84 in Davie, Florida from 11:30 AM to 4:30 PM. If you are interested in attending call Anette Lefkowitz at: 954-966-7760 Luncheon will be served. The fee is $30 per person.

Volume 5 January 2004
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

As we begin a new year, I see the dawning of each day as an opportunity to meet its challenges with the desire, discipline and determination that we all acquired on the gridiron. Getting to know each and every one of you has been a blessing in my life.
I recently received a copy of a letter from a former player that I sent out to the parents of Lafayette H.S. football candidates in 1950. It helped to remind me of walking the streets of Bensonhurst to be sure that footballers were off the street corners home with their parents and doing their homework.
It also helped remind me of the time I led the members of the John Adams High football team by bicycle to the Park Dep't field, approximately 3/4 of mile from the school for practice (our field was under repair). On the way to practice youngsters from the neighborhood followed us. By the time we got to the field, we had more followers than players. On the way back after practice we got a few raspberries from the losers who left the Aqueduct race track early.
These kind of incidents help me daydream and it brings a smile to my face. Laughter is a good health prescription.
I don't ride my bike up and down the hills of the mountains, but I do my push ups everyday.....I hope you do too!!
If you are in for making New Year's resolutions include in them the need for a positive attitude and to avoid where possible negative people. We have to realize that some things just are, changes take place.
Remember to keep your eye on the doughnut and not on the hole.
When heartaches and tears come your way, realize that they too shall pass.

"Nil Desperendum"......never despair, the best is yet to be.
All the very best, to all of you for a happy healthy new year.

The Ole Coach,

Ed note:
The planned get together in Florida the end of February has been postponed to a later date. The Coach has advised that he and his family will not be able to make it at that time.
The general Lafayette H.S. reunion is scheduled for February 22nd (Sunday). If any of you receiving this newsletter will be in town for that weekend and would like to get together on Saturday February 21st (Saturday) please advise and depending on how many can make it, I'm sure I can cook something up that will make it enjoyable for everyone.
e-mail: vico@maxsell.com

PS. We welcome Ciro Masso to Florida. Lafayette 1950. Anyone wanting to get in touch with him please email me and I will forward your number to him.

PPS. Sammy Mark visited with us on his way to a cruise to Panama. He will be returning in February and you can contact him via email at: samnre@aol.com

PPPS. Art Metrano famous for his role in Police Academy movies has moved from Hollywood to Aventura, Florida and is busy with his play Art Metrano's Accidental Comedy. If you would like to contact Art send me an email at vico@maxsell.com

PPPPS. I am anxiously awaiting for more material to post on the Coach's website from his former players at John Adams H.S. Anyone having a photo of the Coach riding his bicycle on his way to practice at John Adams please forward it so that we can post it on the website.

Volume 4 December 2003
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

To: All my former players, students, faculty and friends I send my sincerest wishes for a Happy Holiday season and hope you will be enjoying it with family and friends.
There are those among us who have to meet head on the toll that age takes. It is important to stay the course and have a positive outlook in order to stay one step ahead of the grim reaper.
Here from my home on Blackjack mountain in Marietta, Georgia I reflect upon the good fortune I had in being able to pass on the values I learned as a young man. I appreciate hearing from you via e-mail and telephone and knowing that I have played some small part in making your lives successful.
I have always felt that each and everyone of you would carry these important values forward and pass them on to multiply from generation to generation.
Looking forward to and wishing you all a joyous holiday and happy and healthy New Year.
Stay well,

The Ole Coach,

Ed note:
A reunion of all former Lafayette and John Adams football players is being planned for the end of February 2004 in Florida.
The Coach will let me know in January if he will be able to make it ( no Coach, no reunion).
If you live in Florida or are planning to be in Florida during the latter part of February please e-mail me. vico@maxsell.com
Should this reunion come to fruition it will make the Chelsea affair (a night to remember) a gathering of "Brothers" that will last an eternity!
At this writing we have a commitment to attend from:
Art Metrano, Billy Romano, Sam Mark, Danny Teitlebaum, Howie Rosenthal, Vico Confino, Liberta Darienzo (Joe's wife).
Remember: There is a lot more sand in the bottom or our hourglass then in the top, please forward this e-mail to all you feel would be interested in attending.
Viiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiico
The Coach would enjoy speaking with you:

(770) 509-6706

PS. Good News after a two year search I finally found Herb Tanzer of the Great 1949-50 Team also Varsity Football at Cornell. If you are interested in pet behavior Herb is a DVM who has written two books on the subject and can be found by going to www.google.com and typing in Herbert Tanzer. Welcome back Herb.

Volume 3 November 2003
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

From: The Coach's Desk
To: All the players, students I taught and coached.

The summer season is over and I'm back home on Black Jack Mountain in Marietta, GA.
In my twilight years I think about the September song. It goes something like this..."The days dwindle down to a precious few. September, November and these few precious days I spend with you".
The days I spent with you were precious then and more precious now.
The reunions have shown that the challenging training sessions and the high standards of ethical conduct has welded us in soul and spirit. This bond of trust is the glue that keeps us together long after our playing days are over.
These reunions, e-mials, letters and telephone calls are priceless to me. They are the very important factors that help me take on the challenges of each day.
In reverie I also think about the time I was strapped to a cot in the hospital ship, The U.S.S Huddleston as it rode the rough seas of the Atlantic ocean on its way to the good ole U.S.A.
I wondered if I would be able to teach and coach again. That lasted for a moment. Before my eyes I saw my favorite Latin phrase....Nil Desperendum, never despair the best is yet to be. This was followed by what the wounded Sir Lancelot said to his warriors. " A little I'm hurt but not yet slain, I'll sit and bleed awhile and rise to fight again!
I sucked in my guts and decided then and there I will return and teach and coach again.
This experience was a very important factor in how I taught and coached.
The training was tough, but you met the challenge, perhaps sometimes grudgingly and became winners and champions.
I just finished reading a book called the "Head Hunters". It deals with the combat experience of those soldiers who fought the Vietnam war.
One of the chapters in the book is about Joe Crispino. Joe was one of the stellar halfbacks in the history of John Adams football and who I was fortunate to coach.
Joe was a volunteer through and through, He put his life on the line everyday inside enemy lines. this takes courage and fortitude. Joe is an authentic war hero. When he returned home he became a member of New York's finest and is now retired living on Long Island.
When I spoke to Joe at the John Adams 60's reunion last August, he let me know that the training he had as a member of the football team gave him the strength and courage to carry out his missions.
Many of Joe's teammates fought in the Vietnam war and they too became members of N.Y's finest and are now retired.
Pat Epps ex-John Adams footballer made the ultimate sacrifice in the Vietnam war. When I go to the "War Memorial Wall" in Washington DC I put my hands on his name and I tell him how much I miss him and I honor his sacrifice. I also honor John Sibley's ultimate sacrifice and express my heartfelt sorrow for all those I was fortunate to have known but did not return.
When it is all said and done I know how lucky I was to coach you guys who wore the helmet with the bird-cage face mask (and those who played for me before they were fashionable). This feeling goes back to my times at Boys High, Flushing, Lafayette and John Adams.
I write a lot about the "Man in the Glass" also posted on the wall near my desk and an extract from the poem" Sermons We See" by Edgar Guest. It is "I'd rather see a sermon than hear one anyday, the lectures you may deliver may be wise and true but I'd rather get my lessons by observing you".
To the parents, the managers, the guys who rode the bench and the All-Stars. I salute you all.
All the very best,
Hasta la vista

The Ole Coach,

Winners never quit
Quitters never win

When the going gets tough
The tough get going

Ed:
Communication is the sweet nectar of life.
To reap it's rewards requires participation.

The Coach looks forward to your telephone calls and e-mails.

Volume 3 October 2003
COACH'S CORNER NEWSLETTER

Coach speaks:
Vico in his E-mail Re: The Coach Harry Ostro Athletic Complex Chelsea affair which took place at the Lighthouse Restaurant was on the money. I could not add to his evaluation.
I have to ask myself how did a quiet, shy kid from Brooklyn's Williamsburg who loved to read about Sir Lancelot and the Knights of the Round Table and who couldn't wait to read the Frank Merriwell series and the books on the exploits of the Rover Boys have an athletic complex named after him.
It happened because I had the good fortune to coach quality athletes, who had the grit and grim determination to succeed and who knew that it wasn't the size of a dog in a fight, it was the size of the fight in the dog that counted. It was also because I was associated with loyal assistants. I set the limits and standards which called for honor, trust and integrity and they helped to see that these standards were met!
On October 12, 1944 I was a 1st Lieutenant with the 2nd platoon Co. D of the 501st Par. Inf. of the 101st Airborne. I was severely wounded while on patrol against the enemy in Veghel, Holland as written about in "A Bridge Too Far". Because of war wounds I was retired August 22, 1945.
For a while it was "touch and go"....Operated on in a tent in Holland, flown to England for further treatment, stretcher carried to the hospital ship the U.S.S. Huddleston, disembarked in the U.S.A. and ambulanced to Mc Closkey General Hospital in Temple. Texas. There with caring M.D.'s and nurses I was on my way to recovery.
Before my actual retirement I was sent home in June on terminal leave. When home I visited with Walter J. Muller, the famed Boys High School football coach, where I was part of his staff. Wally suggested that I accept a job at the waterfront at Camp Berkshire, Winsted, Connecticut. This is where I met Dan Kaplan, a prime mover in the "Take The Field" program to rebuild New York City's athletic fields. It is also where I met my wife Audrey who was the head of the waterfront at the girls camp.
In 1947 I was assigned to Lafayette High School as a teacher of health education and head football coach. I brought with me Frank Rabinowitz who I helped coach when I was an assistant at Boys High.
Frank was an authentic war hero and served with the 82nd Airborne during WW II. Frank and I combat trained paratroopers.
At Lafayette H.S. we drilled and coached the team to an undefeated season. Vince Gargano was captain of that team. Vince received a scholarship to the University of South Carolina where he starred on the their football team. When he graduated from college, he worked with me in coaching the great '52 team. Vince went on to be head coach at Lincoln High. When he retired form the school system he began his professional coaching career with the Ottawa Rough Riders of the Canadian footbal league.
The head coach of that team was George Brancato, one of the best athletes that came out of Lafayette High and we had plenty of them. (Note: George holds the record for having made the playoffs for 10 consecutive seasons).
Another of the 52' team was Larry Merchant, When Larry graduated from the University of Oklahoma he too helped coach the '52 team. Larry is a top notch sportscaster. He was recently inducted into the "Sportscaster's Hall of Fame".
When the basketball coaches job at Lafayette became vacant I was asked to release Frank Rabinowitz to take that assignment. Frank did a great job with the basketball players and Sandy Koufax was a member of that team.
I then recruited Angelo Plaia to work with me. He is a special kind of guy with a great sense of humor and loved by the lineman and other members of the teams he coached.
He had played football at Lafayette H.S. and then went on to play college football at New York University. He knew the game of football and drilled the players in the proper fundamentals. At the same time, teaching the need to be responsible citizens on and off the field. I can't help but remember how after a practice session we stood back to back and allowed the team to charge us, two and three at a time. The guys just loved it and Angelo and I enjoyed it as much as they did.
Angelo met his wife Mary Ann who was a teacher at Lafayette at the same time. I lost Angelo to Oceanside H.S. on Long Island where he was a teacher and athletic director.
Sam Rutigliano appeared on the scene when Angelo left. I had passed my promotional exam and was to be appointed as assistant Principal in charge of the health education program and head football coach at John Adams High School in Queens.
I turned over the reins to Sam because I wanted the players whom I was leaving to have a quality Coach. I wasn't disappointed. When Sam left Lafayette he went on to coach at Greewich H.S. in Connecticut. From there he went on to coach at the college level and finally the National Football League as head coach of the Cleveland Browns.
My tenure at Lafayette H.S. was a challenging one and I enjoyed every minute of it..
The assistant coaches and players from the all stars to those who rode the bench. They are the ones who made the Chelsea affair possible.
I received a telephone call the other day from a former footballer. As we were about to say so long, I mentioned that his call made my day and his response was you made my "life". No amount of fame or fortune can ever equal that.
I salute you all. This kid from Brooklyn can look at the "Man in the Glass"
All the very best to you all!

The Ole Coach,

Volume 2 August 2003

As the summer season winds down, sitting on my dock watching the boats go by, I recapture in my mind the reunions with former players I had the good fortune to coach.
Rehashing old times is chicken soup for my soul. It energizes me to take on the challenges of the day.
It was good of Lester Schlumpf (ex principal of John Adams) to advise me of the retired faculty members get together. I enjoyed meeting with those who attended. I'm most appreciative of the unique birthday card that Lester sent me. It has a special place in my "war" room in Marietta, Ga.
This was followed by a reunion of former football players at John Adams High of the 60's. It was a joyous affair. They arrived from far & wide. Bob Rosa came from Maui, Hawaii. Those who attended will remember the Mattera, Ostro song and dance.
In August I visited with Sam De Luca (former Capt. of the NY Jets) at his lovely home in West Chester City. At our lunch table with Sam, were John Sprizzo, Lowell Chereskin, we reminisced about old times we had fun talking about them. I went away from the luncheon with a signed photograph of Sam sitting on the bench next to Joe Namath. Clean as a whistle with the bloody Sam cleaning the blood of his face and nose!
I can't wait to get home and frame it.
This was followed by a reunion of ex - Lafayette H.S. gridders at the nonpareil Bill Romano's. It takes place on the roof of his apartment house. At his own expense he sets an unbelievable table for all to enjoy. Thank Bill.
At my table was Nick De Cicco, Sam Mark, Danny Teitlebaum & Lowell Chereskin. Nick lead the discussion. We talked about the time when Nick was all star gridder at Lafayette. Nick was also an outstanding lineman of the nationally rated U. of Maryland. Nick played with the best and against the best. He made his presence felt.
The summer season ends for me on September 10th with the Lafayette H.S. Field affairs at the Chelsea Pier.
On September 12th I fly back to my hideaway on Black Jack Mountain in Marietta, Ga.
Don't forget to keep in touch particularly if you are in Atlanta. Let's get together.
The website has given me a channel to visit with former players and faculty members.

The Ole Coach,